If you decide you want to have your baby adopted or you want to discuss this option with someone, you should contact your local Social Services department - your GP, Sure Start Plus Advisor, or Midwife will be able to help you find them.

Social Services work with approved adoption agencies to arrange preparation for adoption before the baby is born, but nothing will be definitely arranged until after the birth. You can change your mind at any time.

The social worker will discuss with you the kind of family you want your child to grow up in and will usually tell you a lot about the family that is likely to become your baby's new parents. She will also talk to you about the possibility of meeting the family and the contact you could have in the future.

Although social workers arrange adoptions, they are made legally binding by the courts. The court will make sure you have made up your mind about the adoption and that the baby's new home is the right environment for him/her to grow up in.

The adoption is usually made legal when the baby is 3 months old - and you will have at least six weeks after the birth before you have to give your final agreement.

If you think adoption is not the right decision for you, you can arrange for your baby to be fostered. Fostering means that another set of parents will temporarily look after your baby - but you remain the legal guardian and can care for your child in the future when you feel ready to take on the responsibility. The same people who organise adoption can help with fostering.

If you want more help and advice on adoption you can contact:
The British Agencies for Adoption and Fostering (BAAF)
11 Southwark Street, London SE1 1RQ
Telephone: 0207 593 2000